Day Late and $1 Short- ‘Keep Your Heart 3 Stacks
Trying to get out the “game” can be a headache for some men. We often try to talk ourselves in to settling down and become prisoners of the moment and lose focus. We don’t be ready! Word is, that if he meets the right one then she can change his “womanizer” ways and make him settle down. There is some truth to this statement but I also know about 20 other women that are abreast to getting hurt in this type of situation. It’s always that group who feel they are the exception in this experiment. When I say experiment, I mean the experiment to change the guy they want to be with.
As I have stated before, we are in this social network driven era and it’s easy to get distracted. Have I browsed a few profiles and albums while in a relationship? Sure I have. Not with any malicious intent but just to browse. Please don’t judge me, ladies. I know damn well if Facebook or Twitter revealed who peeped your profile/pictures, 86% of you would be exposed for prowling old joints, especially the ones in a relationship that be lurking. So yeah, I have done my share of friendly browsing. Friendly browsing never hurt anybody but if you are vulnerable and will fall victim to “thirst trap pictures” Please stay away from friendly browsing. Recovering alcoholics are not going to put themselves in a drinking environment unless they know for sure they can control themselves. Stay off Facebook and definitely Instagram, bro. #CreepLife
“Then I CC’ed every girl that I’d see-see ’round town”
Unfortunately in this era, CCing every girl round town consist of several options. The first method of CCing I will discuss is “Social Networking CCing”. Some women don’t see the relationship as being real unless it’s on Facebook, Twitter and or Instagram. Women just want to be filtered, bruh. Prior to postings pictures PLEASE make sure you are completely out of the game. I’ve seen it get ugly in a comment section before. Nothing satisfies a woman more than viewing a couple’s picture of her and her #him posted on a social network. Of course she likes and comments #atthesamedamntime, but for some it’s for ALL the wrong reasons. They are liking and commenting #atthesamedamntime for the other wetness (no pun) that’s around you, but you’re no island…peninsula maybe? Exactly! She may still be concerned about that wetness or little moisture if (you not that popping), that’s around you. Regardless of the amount, women are territorial and when they feel even threaten, they will do any and every thing to Brandy and Monica the situation.
See what I did there?
Fellas, you shouldn’t have a problem with posting “couples” pictures of you and your lady. This isn’t a huge issue that leads to head butting (too soon?) if you are not proactive in doing so. But when you do post pictures, make sure that it’s genuine OR at least act like you’re not worried about your other jiggaboos seeing your new yams.
Other methods of CC’ing the other chicks includes: straight up telling them that you hanging your jersey in the rafters and or changing your phone number. Men prefer ignoring something until it becomes a problem. This is not necessarily a good idea in this situation, because women need closure. It’s very profane to waste someone’s time. You may encounter some quibble when you tell her that you are trying to become a one-woman man. Pray that she respects it. If not, then changing your number is always an alternative. So what if you have to go through the hassle of distributing your number to the people that truly need it. This is an easy way to prevent seeing those “I miss you text” through your primary form of communication.
Sometimes a mobile detox is so necessary.
Getting out the game can be difficult for a man. People need to understand that it doesn’t solely rely on a man meeting “the one” for him to want to settle down, that s*** has to come from within him first to FULLY tackle that commitment of fidelity. Every man wants to do right by his woman but find it difficult to have that state of mind 100% of the time. This transition may be tougher for the bachelor that was accustomed to juggling several women because it’s a process and it will take time. I refuse to give credit for doing something you are SUPPOSED to do, but if a man is adjusting his lifestyle for the greater good (settling down) be patient with him in his efforts to become a better man.